guys, do u know that when we smiled at you twice. eventually it does not mean we might fall for you. haha do you know that woman are created with diversity. sometimes different culture and community created different people. and living here abroad away from where we were grown. we tend to bring out our differences, our diversity.
so, dont think that you probably managed to hijacked a woman's brain easily.
the weirdest part of all culture is the mixture of Malay and Islam. Malay have the tendencies of superb shyness. and Islam preventing us from doing maksiat. Ect: Islam does not allow sex before marriage. result, a proper community is created. and prevention of heart broken. prevention of rare diseases. prevention of wild life like wild animals :)) how awesome is Islam??
but Malay itself is unique, i myself Melayu. and i dont understand much how the culture work. do you know most Malay i know that likes each other does not speak with each other outside when they meet up? do you know that most of them chat like they are intimates? hahaha funny huhh? and yet, disgusting.felt confused T,T and bored. i feel like this kind of friendship they created are 'fakeness'.
different to other cultures, they are are more open.the Chindians, yes, they speak vulgar. but eventually we will only say 'boys, biasalah' but we laugh, we jokes, we discuss, and we dont text each other bagai bulan dan bintang!
and the one eventually date each other, will probably date each other. so there are boundaries of friendly friendships and relationship.at least this one, is clean and clear. and if, they cheat. well, eventually it is not makan diri sort of attitude. it is the shout and scream 'i hate u!' scene. (hehe okay, i dont say this is good, but it is healthier, kot?) :s
so be reluctant dudes, probably we smiled because it was for courtesy. probably we looked back because you were looking at us. and probably you think we are part of your target or part of your play, eventually 0.01%.
because only God knows what is in our heart,probably it is just a perasaan perasan je lebih. hahaha.
and to Muslim girls out there, sometimes, friendliness is state as bitchiness. social-able is termed as flirtatious. and smiling eventually cheapness. dont be despair. just focus more to our family. lets laugh to our lame dad's jokes.lets smile to our brother. lets poke our brother. lets giggle and scam our daddy instead! causes prevention is better than cure, if we could not keep the community labelling and stereotyping others, lets just shut them up with proper Islam teaching. and be good person. reminder to me,also.
kudos, to u and me. age of 20 is a killing age. you cant get to friendly,and there is no 'just friends' huhh?
He is all Knower. And He know best what we don’t, so chill. These facts make us more humble and fill ourselves with humility, insyaAllah because at least we understand the right and wrong right?
i dont get it either, why i write this all out T,T maybe because everybody is talking about marriage?? (i am not 18, anymore.)
